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Metal, Hardcore, Punk, Death Metal, Thrash Metal... Qwerty and miserable, always wanting more.
Monday, May 18, 2026
The List: AFI
The first time I saw (or heard) AFI was on April Fool's Day 1997 and I HATED them. Being "Mr. Serious Hardcore Guy" at the time, their goofy skatepunk totally missed the mark with me. Being 23 then, I wrote them off as slop for 14-year-olds, entry level garbage. They landed on my radar two years later when I saw an ad for Black Sails in the Sunset and thought, "this is no different!"
The offending ad
Fast forward to the Summer of 2000. The girl I was dating at the time and I were given free warped tour passes and when we looked at the board during a lull in the line up, I said "Hey, let's go make fun of AFI!" we walked over to the stage they were slated to play on, and they came out and blew us away. I CANNOT express how good they were. I became an instant fan. They mentioned that they weren't even supposed to play that day but asked to be added as they hadn't played buffalo is so long and had gotten many letters requesting that they do. I'm glad they did. At a merch table I got a free sampler cassette with some garbage Vandals song and the enticing Sacrifice Theory for the upcoming record AFI record, The Art of Drowning. I was smitten; it immediately changed how I wrote songs for my band at the time, The Control. I soon owned Black sails in the Sunset, All Hallow's and Art of Drowning. This stuff was a far cry from the band I saw in 1997 and right in my wheelhouse: Spooky Melodic Hardcore.
The girl I was dating on that fateful Warped Tour Day eventually broke up (after seeing AFI another time in 2001) and my first wife and I started dating. Thankfully, she was already into AFI and together we went to the BEST AFI gig I ever saw January 1/29/03. Sing the Sorrow leaked a few weeks later and at first, we were taken aback, she even joked "Did they lose a bet or something?" Within a week I couldn't stop listening to it. We saw them 3 more times in 2003.
AFI at the Opera House 1/29/03 (shot with a potato)
AFI at the Opera House 1/29/03 (shot with a potato)
AFI continued to be an influence on me, my next band Dead Hearts- every record had to have the huge intro ala AFI. When we were in the studio recording our most popular record Bitter Verses, we stopped at a record store on the way to the studio (6/6/06) to grab the CD for DECEMBERUNDERGROUND and Derek, Tom and I were like "uhhhhhh?" it was just OK at best. I like songs but over all that record falls so flat for me. I saw them in Toronto two weeks later and everything was white- their clothes, the back drops, the fucking tree they had on stage. WHITE. I was bummed. They were good but some of the songs weren't. Crash love followed up December... and I stood outside their show handing out flyers because aside from two songs, the record REALLY sucked and the band looked like Maroon Five. Burials followed- I like that one mostly and I took my son to see AFI when he had just turned 3 (he starts middle school soon). I firmly like the Missing Man ep. But really, it's been slim pickings since 2003.
My son at his first gig- AFI 2018
The author at the 20th STS show 2023
I did have a BLAST at the 20th anniversary of Sing the Sorrow in LA 3 years ago and both other times I've seen them in 2022 and 2025. Each time they played a few classics I hadn't seen and are still a great live band, it's just not the same. I don't like the last two albums at all and although I respect them as artists wanting to continue to grow, the stuff they write now isn't what I look for them for. Plus, they were VERY GOOD at writing the songs the wrote from 1999-2003 and fairly mediocre at writing the kind of stuff that came after. They were so locked in, but now the freeway has so many exits, they never quite get to the destination. Last time I saw them, they did do Malleus Maleficarum, so perhaps all is forgiven. As a matter of fact, Black Sails in the Sunset turned 27 today!
Anyway, on to the list of every AFI song I've seen performed live:
Answer That and Stay Fashionable:
Half-Empty Bottle
Brownie Bottom Sundae
I Wanna Get a Mohawk (But Mom Won't Let Me Get One)
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